Sunday, July 28, 2013

Sermon - July 28, 2013


10th  Sunday after Pentecost – Year C(Lectionary 17)
Genesis 18:20-32 Luke 11:1-13

                                                                      Teach Us to Pray 

"Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples." 

Here is the first thing I want you to notice in this one-line request from the disciples:  they are pointing out to Jesus something that he OUGHT to do, after having seen it being done effectively by someone else.  Imagine the gumption of saying to Jesus, “Here is something that you seem not to have thought about doing, but we really think you should try.”  “Teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.”   

IF the Jesus story is THE STORY which defines our lives then from this sliver of the Jesus story we ought to gain the insight that nothing sacred is ever upset or annoyed with the suggestion that maybe we could do things a bit differently or in a way that might be a bit more helpful.

            I pull this out for consideration, not merely for interesting conversation, but as a way of expressing how deeply concerned I am for the future of the Church, and to begin to share with you that I am moving more and more into the camp that thinks that unless we change the way we do things, the trend of fewer folks being involved in Church, and the average age of those who are involved getting higher and higher, is going to continue till we just simply all die out.

And one of the things that seems to be working, though you would at times get the impression that we hadn’t thought of it, yet, is to spend less time on Sunday morning talking about what Jesus thought and more time learning to live as Jesus lived. 

There is no way that I have something interesting enough or smart enough or powerful enough to make weekly attendance worth your while.  What might bring the change to your life that you seek is for this hour to help you practice being the person Jesus calls us to be.   

"Teach us …, as (others have been) taught." 

So here is where we are going to start this morning.  I want you to take out a pen or pencil or snag the one from the pew book thing, and on the edges of your bulletin write down the place or places, the person or persons, who have in the past helped you to learn how to pray.  Seriously – do some writing.   

I am going to talk while you write, but I don’t want to see you looking at me, I want you to be looking at that piece of paper in front of you. 

Prayer is very important.  Prayer is at the heart of one’s self-expression of the relationship with God.  Prayer reveals, as well as informs, the way we perceive God and the ways in which we expect our relationship to God to affect our lives. 

So who taught you to pray? Where did you learn to pray? 

Write it on that blank bulletin before you. 

If you learn to pray as a result of attending Sunday morning worship and listening to the pastor or the worship assistant, then your prayers are probably pretty formal.  I wonder if you tend to pray for things in the same, generic/non –offensive way we say Sunday prayers. 

If you learned to pray at a summer camp, I would imagine your prayers tend to encourage you to return to that mountain top experience.   They may tend to want to remove you from the gritty events of life back home. 

I learned to pray, or at least my most formable formation with regard to prayer – came in the midst of social activism – the same sort of action that seems to have formed the attitudes of Pope Francis.  (That probably doesn’t surprise you.)  So my prayers are as much actions as they are words flowing from my mouth.  

Who taught you to pray?  Where did you learn to pray? 

Was it kneeling at the side of your bed with a parent or grandparent kneeling beside you?  Did you learn to pray later in life?  Perhaps even in the midst of a terrible and horrible experience?  

Or, is your piece of paper blank because you don’t know when you learned?  Or if you even want to say that you have learned? 

Truth be told – I was actually hoping for a few blank sheets.  I was hoping we might have the courage to admit to one another that we are unsure how to pray.  I was wondering how many of us were as courageous as the first twelve of Jesus’ disciples, willing to stand before this altar and confess:  "Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples." 

How do we begin, as a community of faith, to learn to pray?  How do we develop the knack and the ability and the courage to speak to God and of God?   

Let me make my own confession:  way too early in the lives of my children I stopped the practice associated with every TV children’s drama.  I didn’t go into my children’s room at the end of the day, get down on my knees with them, and say a prayer.  I wonder, if Kat-Smith-Caleb were here this morning, if they would have written my name down on the cover of their bulletin?   

So how do we develop this skill?  This art?  This avenue for strengthening our relationship with God?

One starting point might be longer periods of silence, during the Prayer of the Day, to see if anyone (in addition to Martin Schneider) will offer a prayer petition from the congregation.  Why do so few such petitions get offered?

One of my favorite experiences is the opening of Congregational Council Meetings, when a member of the Council (not a pastor) offers a reflection – AND A PRAYER. 

Want to hear one of my pet peeves?  NEVER – EVER – when you find yourself to be the one who MUST offer a prayer for the group or event – include in the call to prayer the words, “Okay, let’s have  quick prayer.”  A “quick” prayer?  Do we have something more important to do?  Some business to attend to that is more important than speaking to God?  I was hoping for some laughs – I don’t mean to shame anyone.  I know that those words are spoken because the person who finds themself pressured into praying for the group hasn’t had sufficient support to feel as if they are ready for the moment or equal to the challenge.  That is OUR fault (your pastors), and the thing that we need to change about what we do when we are together. 

We may need to begin with gaining knowledge about the differing types of prayer.  I made reference to the formal, generic prayers offered in Sunday morning worship.  That is one type of prayer. 

Another type is the style offered by the bedside of one who is gravely ill.  There, prayer is a bit more intense and purposeful. 

There is a prayer style which we would call “meditation,” or “reflection.”  And sometimes prayer is an affirmation of what it is that the prayer believes.  The book in the bible we call “Psalms,” is a collection of hymns – but most of those hymns take on a format that could be called a prayer. 

The opening reading for today is an interesting prayer.  If all conversation with God is prayer, then Abraham’s prayer serves the purpose of protest.  He will not accept that God will kill the righteous with the unrighteous.   Interesting in that exchange – does God not already know how many righteous there are in the cities?  Is Abraham insisting that God take a head count (something God had not yet done)?  Or does God know there aren’t even ten so he can play along with Abraham’s game? 

I had asked you to review Luther’s Small Catechism on The Lord’s Prayer.  Did you realize they printed the Small Catechism in the ELW?  Turn to page 1163.  During the time of distribution of communion, read over this.  Read it to your children.   

“Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.”

Jesus hadn’t thought of everything – at least not yet.  The courageous disciples, while remaining grateful for all that Jesus had done, stepped forward to identify what they needed and to seek that which would sustain them in the long haul.   

What they needed – and what we need – is to learn to make our relationship with God a living relationship.  We can’t form relationships unless we interact.  Interaction with God involved doing God’s will in the world (Petition 3), it involves being clear about who God is and how God views us (Petition 1), and it involves the confidence that we are in God’s heart and that God is in ours (Conclusion.) 

“Lord, give us the courage and the strength to learn to pray.” 

Amen.

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